My Grandmother Eve Hardin Clay
Connection:
Eve Hardin Clay and David Peyton Clay =
Sarah M. Clay
Sarah M. Clay and James M. Hatcher = Mahaney
Hatcher
Mahaney Hatcher and Berry Bateman Shepherd
- Sarah Margaret Shepherd
Sarah Margaret Shepherd and George T. Chambers
= Lillie M. Chambers
Lillie M. Chambers and William Wayne Bentley
= Nancie Bentley
Nancie Bentley and Clifton Babb = Billy
Babb
Billy Babb and Rosa Mae Bloodworth = Eileen
Babb
In "History of Wilkinson County" by Victor
Davidson no mention is made of the Clay family. Yet they, like many other
families in Wilkinson County not mentioned, settled in Wilkinson
from it's creation. As in other county histories, families get left out
- whether by ignorance, family dislike by the author, space in the book
or lack of family information at the time of publication.
(Note: It has been brought to my attention
that families were charged $250 to write their history to be published
in the book)
Below is an excerpt from the orginal
book "Georgia Historic Families" published in the 1930's. I believe
it is in reprint now. I don't like to think of Grandmother Eve as a witch
with all the negative thoughts that go with that word. I think of her as
stong-willed woman who had her way
of doing things and not caring what the neighbors or some of her children
thought.
Here's to you Grandmother - A Woman Before
Your Time!
Excerpts From
Ga Historic Families by L.W. Rigsby
"The Welsh Witch Woman"
"There was living
in Wilkinson Co., Georgia, 83rd Subdivision, 1850, in the family of her
daughter Sarah Hatcher, an old woman who was listed in the census of that
year as follows: "Eve Clay, aged 80, female, born in Georgia." There was
living at the time of collecting the material for this sketch, in Wilkinson
County, Ga. Mrs. Susie Gilbert, in Washington County, Ga, Mrs. Mary Trawick,
and in Florida Mrs. William Connell, each of whom remembered Eve
Clay as mentioned above and from them I obtained the salient Points of
this sketch together with traditions from my mother who remembered her
quiet well and who left notes relating to her."
" Eve Hardin was born
in Georgia in 1770 of Welsh descent. During the early days of the revolution
the family refugeed from state of Georgia to the Southwestern part of Virginia
where John Hardin, her father participated in Dunmore's war. Later the
family refugeed from this frontier settlement into Pennsylvania, her father
serving in the Pennsylvania Militia, from Pennsylvania the family refugeed
into either North Carolina or Virginia in the vicinity of Orange County,
if not within the borders of that county. At the close of the revolution
the family came into Washington County, Ga., that is the children came
and it is presumed that the father is dead. The three earliest Hardins
coming to Georgia were Isaac, Adam and Nicholas. Isaac appears to have
gone back to Virginia and presumably he was an uncle of Adam, Eve, and
others."
"Sept. 26, 1792
Eve Hardin was married to David Clay in Warren County, Georgia. Presumably
she was living at that time either with her brother Adam or her Uncle Isaac.
Very little is known of her married life except that which is included
in "The Georgia Branch of the Virginia Clays and Their Celebrated Cousins"
but what we do know is unfavorable. She had a violet temper, was self-willed
and could not be reasoned with when her temper was aroused. David Clay
was a man of considerable property and owned a plantation in Washington
County and one in Wilkinson County. When she was overcome with one of these
rages he quietly removed himself to his Washington County Plantation until
the storm blew over when all was quiet until the next time.
Her husband died
before 1820 and the more minute part of this sketch begins with her widowhood.
After her husband's
death she remarried, but the marriage was not happy. Her second husband
sent her to my grandfather's on the pretext that he was sick.. He was living
at that time in what is now Terrell Co. and Eve was living in Wilkinson.
She went horse back carrying a negro woman with her. When she returned
she found that her husband, negroes, and mules had disappeared. She was
left with lands, a horse and one negro. She immediately set out in pursuit
of her husband and slaves and followed them to some place either on the
Gulf near Port St. Joe or Savannah. The family are not exactly agreed as
to the place, but wherever it was her husband and negroes had taken ship
and that was the last she ever knew of either. Whether this deranged her
mind or whether she had been of the same disposition all along I do not
know but now began a peculiar kind of life.
Going back a little.
After the death of David Clay and before the children began to leave home
Eve Clay had fried ham for breakfast one morning. The older children knew,
or thought they knew, that there was no ham in the smokehouse. They immediately
began to inquire of their mother as to where she got the ham. She would
not tell them or give any explanation The older children refused to eat
breakfast unless she would tell and she refused to tell, so they went to
work breakfastless and no member of the family, to this day knows any more
about the ham than when the discussion first started.
In personal appearance
she was of medium size with gray eyes and at the time of which I write
her hair was white. It was probably auburn in earlier life. She was restless,
filled with boundless energy, with shame and of a most determined disposition
and violent temper.
She had a great store
of Welsh superstitions and of Scotch Closeness. She united these and practiced
the profession of Palmistry and "fortune-telling." In this she traveled
considerable distances, usually going horseback and carrying her serving
woman with her. The practice of her profession of Palmistry and "fortune-telling".
In this she traveled considerable distances, usually going horseback and
carrying her serving woman with her. The practice of her profession proved
profitable and she was accustomed to have in her possession considerable
amounts of silver. She went as far as Savannah, and even to the Gulf Ports
and wherever she went her art was in demand. Her temper, and her rather
uncanny skill in foretelling, or rather guessing the coming future events,
built for her quite a reputation. This with her age and appearance and
peculiar conduct soon attracted to he the appellation of "The Witch Woman".
Her children disapproved
of this kind of existence and every effort was made by them to get her
to abandon her fortune telling and these exscusions but without avail.
The struggle between Eve and her children over this, was long and persistent
with Eve continuing to do as she pleased. The children finally scattered
out and Peyton Clay built Eve a house near his home. Here she lived for
a number of years all alone and it was here that Mrs. Susie Gilbert knew
her. Her serving woman appears on the scene no more and from now on we
find Eve traveling on foot. Peyton Clay was wealthy and it is presumed
that there was a deliberate attempt made to prevent these excursions, but
to no avail. She was too independent to ask for a horse or to be carried
and on more that one occasion traveled from Wilkinson County to Sumpter
and Terrell counties on foot. Her children would send her back when her
time was out.
She lived to an extreme
old age and got to where she could not walk a foot log. This did not prevent
her, however, from going when and where she pleased. There were no bridges
and she would wade the creeks at the fords and on one occasion gave some
of her grandchildren a server scolding because they had seen her come to
a creek and wade it and did not offer to take her up and carry her across
on the horses which they were riding home from the field. They had wanted
to see her wade the creek and did not let her know they were there until
after she crossed the creek. I think that she was justified in her indignation
at her grandchildren at this time.
Her grandchildren were
divided as to her supernatural powers, some believed in her possessing
such powers and others did not. My mother had no faith in her possessing
such powers but her sister Francis who married Hiram Wadsworth did. Mrs.
Luvinia Connell still relates this circumstances as proof of Eve's power.
"Judith Lucindy, my sister died quite young. Before her death, I was very
sick and my mother was expecting me to die. Grandma (Eve) was at our home.
At that time Judith was well and playing about. Mother asked Eve to tell
her if I was going to die. Grandma told my mother that I was not going
to die but that Judith was. I got well but Judith was soon taken sick and
died."
Mrs. Trawick remembers Eve coming
over in Washington County to visit relatives. She says that at that time
she was very old and always came on foot. She says that all of the children
were afraid of her, and that people called here a Witch. Mrs. Gilbert of
Wilkinson County gives the same account of her.
She lived to be very old and
is given by White as an instance of longevity in Wilkinson County. When
enfeebled by age her daughter Sarah Hatcher appears to have taken her in
her home and to have given her the necessary care and attention. Age had
finally done what man had been unable to do, that is subdue and tame her
proud and imperious spirit.
These characteristics of Eve
has appeared in other members of the family to a much lesser extent. In
collaterals it has rarely ever gone beyond eccentricity, but in my opinion
John Wesley Hardin of Texas was of this family and this characteristic
explains his live and conduct, Henry Clay of Wilkinson County must have
inherited a share and I have seen it in others to a less extent. As a matter
of fact I have felt the surge at times in myself. This characteristic was
so marked that a common expression among all descendants when one lost
his temper was "Watch old Eve". That was all that was necessary to cool
the temper and restore tranquility.
Now in concluding this
sketch, I know of nothing better for all descendants to do that adopt this
as a permanent motto "Watch old Eve". Time and the diffusion of her blood
among the blood of many others has nearly destroyed the potency of this
characteristic, but is likely to be renewed at any time by a series of
marriages among her descendants or with some other family of similar blood
lines and with similar characteristics. She had many good and noble qualities
but it is by this characteristic that she is remember and it is from
this characteristic that we descendants can most profit, that is in a negative
way by guarding against the development of this characteristic within our
hearts."
Eileen Babb McAdams
copyright 2003-2004